So I have been watching this marathon of wedding-based movies all day today on TBS. And maybe I shouldn't be. Mostly because all at once I love them, and get terribly depressed at the end of them. What exactly is it that depresses me? Let's analyze, shall we? It isn't so much about the marriage part as it is the love, I guess. I grew up thinking that marriage is something that happens to everyone...no matter what. In my sheltered childhood exsistence I guess it never occured to me that some people in the world do NOT get married at all. Some choose it- Some wait too long- and some just weren't meant to find their soulmate (if there is such a thing) My whole marriage fantasy was never about the big party, the head over heels giddy love, the pomp, or anything like that. My marriage fantasy has always, and I mean this...always been about knowing that there is someone out there that "gets" you. There is someone out there that loves you so deeply that they are w...
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Oh, my, I am so sorry. What awful timing.
But, remember, you still have the most important man there is-your son.
And I know you will get through this and be stronger for it. (Okay, now you are thinking, "yah, right" but you will, I promise.)
Jennifer
1. His seeing some one will turn out the way it did when you were seeing someone, or
2. You will work toward acceptance and move on with your life (hopefully without comparing any new person to the old person).
Hang in there!